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Old 12-31-2018, 07:22 PM   #1
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I have a bad dream last night about my family(two twin nieces sister and brother in law). They all live in Texas way far from me but I got to see my sis and nieces last Christmas and I had gifts for them. They were very happy.
My brother in-law is deployed to Germany right now so he couldn’t make it home for the holidays.

In my dream my sister came to me looking for money to help get her and her kids home because my brother in-law had spent all of their money on golf. He loves playing golf.

Both of my nieces were sick with a chest infection but my sister didn’t have the money to take them to the doctor because her husband spent all the money on golf.

I told her I would give her what ever she needed. I turned to my brother in-law and torn into him with insults. I said things like “everyone says your a self centered jerk maybe there right!!” I cussed at him I might of spit at him but I’m not really sure.

I left to go to the bank to give my sister some money to get home I felt like I could barely move my legs.

Before coming back or maybe before in the dream I had to stop and hook up a customers internet. I went to use my iPhone to activate his modem. The customer had an old computer and wanted me to activate the modem on that.

I told the customer that we do it like that anymore I added a insult at him”you damn dummy!” I could tell his feelings were hurt and I apologized to him. My customer told me he use to do what I did and he understood where I was coming from.

I was scared he was going to call in and complain about me. I was back at the house where my family was. My boss from work was running my brother in-law around like he had been in the army, they were both sweating.

My boss turned to me and told how self centered he thought my brother in-law is. My brother in-law wasn’t wearing a shirt when I looked at him the first time I looked away and back at him again and he had a bunch of tattoos all over his body. One was venom from Spider-Man.

My brother in-law had big muscles all of a sudden but the skin on his chest was sagging down like man boobs. I was enraged at him and I grabbed one of my biggest flashlights and walked over to him with intentions of beating my brother in-law with my flash light.

Once I got up to my brother in-law his whole appearance changed, he had a beard, black fleece jacket, and a black ball cap on, he looked like someone else. I smacked him in the arm with my flashlight at the same moment he grabbed my arm and hit me in the chest with a retractable baton.

Ever time I would hit him with the flashlight he would block the blows then smack me in the chest with the ball tip of the baton.

It hurt but it wasn’t enough to get me to stop fighting, this brother in-law guy was going to over power me and make me follow his orders. I was enraged but I couldn’t do anything else.
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You were beating yourself in this dream. Inner battle going on.
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You were beating yourself in this dream. Inner battle going on.


Thanks that makes sense. I’m not sure what I was beating myself up about lately. I’ve been told I need to cut myself some slack before.
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Also look at any real life situation where you feel you are being controlled.
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Also look at any real life situation where you feel you are being controlled.


Could thoughts be something controlling me?
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Yes, your own thoughts. Words also can be controlling.
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