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Unread 10-08-2017, 02:28 PM   #1
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Default My first female ejaculation experience.

I'm in my 50s and was recently treated to an erotic sensual massage which was awesome! I got so aroused by all of his massage work but did not have a regular orgasm. But what did happen was that he started stimulating my g-spot pretty rigorously with 2 fingers and I started ejaculating A LOT of fluid which I have NEVER done before, In fact, I did not even think that I was capable of it!

Unfortunately, I didn't realize that I was squirting fluid at first but did hear a sort of squishing sound which made me sit up a little to see what was going on. Then he announced that I was squirting to which I said, impossible! So he shifted a little so that I could see it coming out and I did see 2 squirts which were like small sprinklers sort of like if you have your thumb on a hose but the water pushed through causing a spray. It wasn't a big spray though.

So here I am squirting and not feeling anything! No orgasm at all. When we were done, I looked at the sheet which was soaking wet!! Remember I didn't know that I was squirting at first so missed the bigger sprays. Anyhow, he told me that he'd estimate that the amount of fluid that came out was equal to 2 cans of soda! If I were to guess based on how soaking wet the sheet was, I would say definitely 1 can of soda! Either way, that is a LOT!

So now we are done and I try to get up and my legs kind of buckle as I was sooooo weak! My whole body was trembling and I was completely spent! But no orgasm! Has this ever happened to anyone else?

Also, if other women who have had this experience please describe what it is like for them, I'd really appreciate it. I'd also be happy to hear from others that have been there when a female has ejaculated.

I'd also like to hear how much you think came out and if the amount equal to 2 cans of soda would be possible.

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IMO, if it was 2 soda cans worth or even 1--part of that liquid had to be pee but glad you enjoyed it! And if you drink a lot of water/coffee/etc your pee will be lighter in color and more like water than pee. These things happen more when we are in our 50s. Not that females don't ejaculate--but probably not that much. And you would likely be having or at least nearly having an O. Next time that happens if you are not totally transfixed perhaps ask to be excused for a bit. I have had days where I can't decide if I am turned on or just need to pee. The joys of aging and the weird things my body does.

I feel like I have but not in the mood to describe it or thinking I just shouldn't. It is something I sometimes think about during sex and I find it a turn on. It is interesting how that the first few times you have sex, all the gooiness seems a bit off putting but now it is one of the things I really like. I bet the person who gave you a massage will be using more towels if you come back.......

So if the menu has the word "erotic" this is what is included?

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Default Re: My first female ejaculation experience.

I don't know how much comes out but I soak through eight layers of towel.

It's a strange occurrence, there's been periods of time where it happens constantly and then it just stops, and I haven't been able to make heads or tails of why. The mysteries of the female body.
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Maybe you should take to wearing a bib.
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I've learned to squirt thru sexual exploration. I'm in my late 40's & a lot more comfortable with my body for different types of orgasms to occur.
When you say "no orgasm" are you referring to just a clitoral orgasm? Bec when I squirt the clitoris is not involved.
Imho most women understand a clitoral orgasm bec that is what we're used to. BUT there are several ways for a woman's body to orgasm & one is a full body orgasm.
And yeah it's messy....but that's the fun part!!!
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I've learned to squirt thru sexual exploration. I'm in my late 40's & a lot more comfortable with my body for different types of orgasms to occur.
When you say "no orgasm" are you referring to just a clitoral orgasm? Bec when I squirt the clitoris is not involved.
Imho most women understand a clitoral orgasm bec that is what we're used to. BUT there are several ways for a woman's body to orgasm & one is a full body orgasm.
And yeah it's messy....but that's the fun part!!!
Thanks Patagonia. I guess that I had a full body orgasm because I felt depleted and weak and shaky BUT I didn't feel anything while I was squirting, nothing at all. So there is no way that I could describe it as pleasurable. I'd like to do it again as maybe it would be better the 2nd time around?

In my experience though, I much prefer a clitoral orgasm as that feels amazing!
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IMO, if it was 2 soda cans worth or even 1--part of that liquid had to be pee but glad you enjoyed it! And if you drink a lot of water/coffee/etc your pee will be lighter in color and more like water than pee. These things happen more when we are in our 50s. Not that females don't ejaculate--but probably not that much. And you would likely be having or at least nearly having an O. Next time that happens if you are not totally transfixed perhaps ask to be excused for a bit. I have had days where I can't decide if I am turned on or just need to pee. The joys of aging and the weird things my body does.

I feel like I have but not in the mood to describe it or thinking I just shouldn't. It is something I sometimes think about during sex and I find it a turn on. It is interesting how that the first few times you have sex, all the gooiness seems a bit off putting but now it is one of the things I really like. I bet the person who gave you a massage will be using more towels if you come back.......

So if the menu has the word "erotic" this is what is included?
Yes, "erotic" means sexual stimulation, but not necessarily squirting.

And I still do not think that it was pee at all. I squirted out all of this liquid and then got up to go to the bathroom and definitely emptied my bladder, so there wouldn't have been anything to pee if I had already squirted it out.

Actually the person came to my house and wants to do it again, but I think that he wants to have sex next time and I'm really not attracted to him so I wouldn't want to have sex with him. Really nice man though, just not my type.
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I don't know how much comes out but I soak through eight layers of towel.

It's a strange occurrence, there's been periods of time where it happens constantly and then it just stops, and I haven't been able to make heads or tails of why. The mysteries of the female body.
Yikes, 8 layers of towels! That is a lot of laundry! Maybe we should try to figure out how to have sex with a bed-pan underneath us for easier clean-up! LOL
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Default Re: My first female ejaculation experience.

I do enjoy a clitoral orgasm too! But I've also experienced orgasms that felt like lightning going thru my body? Other feelings too from other types of orgasms. I don't keep track anymore as long as it felt good.
Yes there's always the debate whether women ejaculate & what's in it. To me, lol I don't care!
We'll send him to my house!!!
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Default Re: My first female ejaculation experience.

I'm a guy; I'm speechless (maybe the first time a guy's been speechless where sex is concerned ). I've never heard of such a thing. Does it act as a lubricant? I wonder how common it is? I've "done the nasty" on three continents & have never witnessed such a thing!
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