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Unread 07-20-2017, 01:14 AM   #1
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Cool Tips for different masturbation techniques?

I'm pretty much done with guys as they made it abundantly clear they aren't interested. I'm too nervous to try a woman (and we women folk can be even more vicious than men at times), so I'm just going to relegate myself to masturbating.

Any tips on different ways to masturbate? I've already got a toy I use, and sometimes I use the showerhead, but I want to spice things up a bit and try something new. So, advice would be welcome.

Oh, and I'm a female if that helps.
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Unread 07-20-2017, 01:53 AM   #2
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Have you tried some sort of a n a l stimulation?
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Unread 07-20-2017, 01:56 AM   #3
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I've been curious but never bold enough to try I guess. Besides, the whole concept of sticking something up your poop shoot to stimulate yourself sexually is kind of...alien to me.
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So long as youu are careful as it is easy to perforate the bowel if you are not. Google a na l stimulation female
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I'm pretty much done with guys as they made it abundantly clear they aren't interested. I'm too nervous to try a woman (and we women folk can be even more vicious than men at times), so I'm just going to relegate myself to masturbating.

Any tips on different ways to masturbate? I've already got a toy I use, and sometimes I use the showerhead, but I want to spice things up a bit and try something new. So, advice would be welcome.

Oh, and I'm a female if that helps.
Great topic as I love to masturbate since I'm not in a relationship and would love some new ways. Here are a couple of ideas for you...

First, I like the ideas of having sex on a beach or in an open field OR with a stranger so I sometimes masturbate in my small walk-in closet in complete darkness. This scenario makes me feel like I a total stranger could come in at any moment.

I find using the shower head is amazing but sometimes I just fill the tub and masturbate under the water with just my fingers. It's really nice to be doing this in a warm or hot bath especially in the winter.

In addition to the shower head, I sometimes will lie with my crotch right under the bath faucet. You have to be an acrobat to this as your legs and feet must go straight upwards against the wall in order to get in the right position. But the bath water faucet is much different and softer than the shower head which is nice.

Also, did you see the masturbation scene in Black Swan. Natalie Portman was masturbating on her stomach and kind of rubbing up against her fist. It was super hot! (hope this link works!)

https://xhamster.com/movies/1502521/...lack_swan.html

I don't typically use toys as I find that it's just too much stimulation for me.

That's all that I can think of for now. Hoping some others respond too.

Good luck!
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I'm pretty much done with guys as they made it abundantly clear they aren't interested. I'm too nervous to try a woman (and we women folk can be even more vicious than men at times), so I'm just going to relegate myself to masturbating.
This has been my approach. I use toys.. vibrators. Maybe try different toys and I have found that different toys have different aspects to them that are pleasurable or not.

Amazon has some lovely selections and discrete packaging.
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Default Re: Tips for different masturbation techniques?

I like to try different positions. Sometimes this can make the orgasm feel differently for me.

I also like to do edging. Delaying my orgasm & building it up.

I also have a dildo that has a suction cup on it & can be put....lots of places! You decide.

And on a side note...anything with ****....lube, lube, & more lube!
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