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Unread 04-07-2012, 10:34 PM   #41
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I keep trying to get my best friend to sleep with me. He's like "I won't be able to get it up, I'll need a strap-on." I'm like "What about viagra?" He's like "Hell no!"

hahaha <3 He keeps telling me if he was straight he'd be with me.
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I fantasize about being with a much larger, and older man, or two, or more. For some reason, him sitting in a chair and me sitting on his lap, us possibly watching porn, him taking the "teacher" role...
Oh boy, don't tell anyone...!
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Wow, the picture with the 3 Firefighters.. Hot.

Please excuse the drool. My bf is a fire fighter and has roleplayed for me in only his fire fighter pants before..

Oh, my fantasies are usually me being dominated in bed by my current flame. Usually.

Buut I do sometimes envision us out in public getting naughty.. Just.. the thought of people watching and.. enjoying themselves too just feels so right.

It's strange but I usually don't even get aroused without my partner with me. When alone, I just use the faucet for fun.. Otherwise we usually work together.
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I guess I am an aberration, but I have been able to masturbate without an accompanying fantasy. I like fantasy, but just plan stimulation does it to me.

Speaking of fantasy... what I have fantasized about the most throughout my life has had to do with particular "unfinished business". I was in love with an older guy who loved me but had very very little sex with me because he did not want to cheat on his wife. But he thought I was extra special, gorgeous, wildly attractive, smart, as high libido as his, and all the rest of that. I was in love with him for a couple of years and I masturbated to fantasy about him a lot, and, rather unfortunately but I carried it through life after the relationship with him ended, and often masturbated to fantasy about what we could have had had he been as passionate and forthcoming with me as he wanted to. He had the very best erection, hard as iron and stone combined, despite being over 50 and living in a virtually sexless marriage.
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I keep trying to get my best friend to sleep with me. He's like "I won't be able to get it up, I'll need a strap-on." I'm like "What about viagra?" He's like "Hell no!"

hahaha <3 He keeps telling me if he was straight he'd be with me.
Daaaaaammmnnnnn! That was ages ago...I'm not even friends with him anymore!

My current fantasy that replay in my head over and over (I'll keep it PG-13):

I'm hosting a fetish party for my coworkers. We play strip-poker, and because I'm the lead domme, I challenge my coworkers that whoever loses first will become my b**** for the night. The coworker I admire is stripped to his underwear before he folds, so I claim him as my prize and grab a cup of ice before taking him to my bedroom. I instruct him to sit on his knees and inform him that I won't hurt him and ask his permission to blindfold him, which he agrees. As I circle him in admiration, I pop a chip of ice in his mouth to suck before I smooth the ice over his skin and kiss and suck where the ice melts. This is where the fantasy usually stops and changes direction, usually I tell him we do not have enough trust or privacy to go any farther and we return to the party, or we wait till after the party to continue without being disturbed.

I should write a novel. :P
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Sorry, I'm a little late to this thread...had to limit my posting to get to bed sooner. However, I'm staying up until at least 4:00 a.m. today because Boscov's opens then--no, I'm not sitting or standing outside the store in the freezing cold waiting, but I'm at home and want to call about some earrings I saw the other day and should have gotten (1/2 off, so the earrings are $6!), because I only saw the one pair and I want to call and see if they could grab them for me as soon as the store opens and hold onto them for me until this evening when I'll go get them!

Now that I've gotten that out of the way...About whom do I fantasize?

YOU, DrSkipper, YOU!!! You get me! You understand why I love Rocky Horror Picture Show! You ask fun questions! I really enjoy your posts! I've fallen madly in lust with you! Tell me you feel the same!!!
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Now that I've gotten that out of the way...About whom do I fantasize?

YOU, DrSkipper, YOU!!! You get me! You understand why I love Rocky Horror Picture Show! You ask fun questions! I really enjoy your posts! I've fallen madly in lust with you! Tell me you feel the same!!!
Awww, that is one of the sweetest messages I've received...ever, on any website!



Dammit, Maven, I love youuuuuu
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Just now reading this... As a survivor, I take responsibility for what I read on PC. Part of the reason I like this forum is because I spent so many years living with my sexuality being shut down. In some ways, talking about and hearing about sexual fantasies has reminded me that adult sexuality can be healthy - I do not need to be ashamed. So... I sometimes think about men and women - all ethnic groups. When I was a teenager, I used to fantasize about soap opera characters on tv, lol!
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4. TRIGGER ICON: My 4th fantasy that I think about almost every day involves being held hostage with my crush by a crazy scientist in a human testing facility while the whole world watches through their computer monitors without being able to rescue us.
ooooooh that sounds like fun. I'll borrow that fantasy



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15. Hot guys in lingerie.
I had fun with that in reality. My BF looked GOOD in lingerie.
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