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Default How to answer these questions?

I am asexual. People sometimes ask me questions I donít know how to answer or I donít want to answer.

Someone asked me if I had a boyfriend. And I said no. Then they asked me if i had a girl friend. And I said no. They then asked why.

At work someone asked me what ďtypeĒ I like. She would not let up.

How do I answer these questions without telling them stuff I donít want them to know? Why do they think these are appropriate questions in the first place.

I get asked these questions often. Maybe people can tell Iím assexual?
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Default Re: How to answer these questions?

It depends on how confrontational you want to be.

You could just stare at them.

You could ask them why they would ask such a personal question.

Less confrontationally, you could say ďDonít worry about it.Ē

If they persist, you can sayĒJust donít worry about it.Ē If they still persist you can stare.

If someone is consistently harassing you at work, you can ask your supervisor for help in getting them to stop.
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Default Re: How to answer these questions?

just say i am not in a relationship with anyone currently
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Answer a question with a question....you donít need to answer.
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