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So, it’s our third night together and she comes to my room (long story) and we start making out, etc., and I’m a ‘lights on’ person and I see, for the first time, the sagging and patterned and leathered breasts of an old woman. Jeez. Even the skin on her inner thighs sagged. Clothed, she looked the part of Someone’s Nordic Mistress. She had some really nice junk (what are women calling their junk these days?) and I was able to serve my country but I could not then or forevermore come for Karen. Maybe faked it one dozen times?

Yes. I have faked an orgasm 13 times (close enough). In 10 trysts, not 13 during one sitting.
I don't know if I'm amused or horrified at this. Lol. I'm not yet 39 but considering if I'm leathery and saggy now. Okay not really. Everyone gets old. Men too. Bodies change, but it doesn't mean bad.

As for women's junk, I could advise you on that, but I think PC would star out my term. Lol.
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I know there is a difference between an orgasm & ejaculating with men. At least in my sexual experience.

I had a partner that experienced whole body orgasms which he trained himself to have using tantric energy. He would not ejaculate at all during sex.

He explained to me one time that he could easily ejaculate, but would lose energy from this & experiencing body orgasms was far more pleasurable. These orgasms would go on for several minutes & roll thru his entire body & he could work them thru his body again & again experiencing these orgasms....for awhile! Almost made me jealous. I was amazed by this information & started to read more about tantric sex & chakra energy.
I was raised to understand a sexual encounter as “petting, penetration & orgasm.” But my philosophies have changed a great deal now.

So as a female I’ve never experienced a male “faking” it, I’m guessing you mean ejaculating.
I’ve often questioned whether women can actually “feel” an ejaculation from a man. I can not. But I’ve read that some women can. Idk.
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The term “leathery & saggy” tells me you are/were young perhaps (???)& do not respect what women’s bodies go thru as a female warrior. Our naked bodies tell another a great deal.
Maybe this person had a big drop in weight which can cause skin to sag. Or maybe this person birthed children into this world.
I guess men can close their eyes & fantasize about air brushed pics they see while they have sex. If men do it, well guess what women do too.

As for women’s junk....basic anatomy words are best. IMHO, To me it shows a sign of intelligence, respect for another & research was done. Now pet names or code words....lol yeah I get that.
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I don't know if I'm amused or horrified at this. Lol. I'm not yet 39 but considering if I'm leathery and saggy now. Okay not really. Everyone gets old. Men too. Bodies change, but it doesn't mean bad.

As for women's junk, I could advise you on that, but I think PC would star out my term. Lol.
Golly - I know my body has changed! I saw 39... a long, long time back. Since that time, I’ve come to appreciate aged bodies! My first - it was just such a shock, I guess. My own - bony and scarred, my hands so wrinkled! I’m body-proud, though; always have been.

Men my age look at Robin Wright and wonder why all women don’t look the same.

We still use the pink hat word for non-specific ‘down there.’

(I’m supposed to be watching a movie but it is sooooo boring!)
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The term “leathery & saggy” tells me you are/were young perhaps (???)& do not respect what women’s bodies go thru as a female warrior. Our naked bodies tell another a great deal.

Maybe this person had a big drop in weight which can cause skin to sag. Or maybe this person birthed children into this world.

I guess men can close their eyes & fantasize about air brushed pics they see while they have sex. If men do it, well guess what women do too.

As for women’s junk....basic anatomy words are best. IMHO, To me it shows a sign of intelligence, respect for another & research was done. Now pet names or code words....lol yeah I get that.
Gosh! No, I was 39, she was 39. The oldest woman I’d ever had sex with, previously, had been 32. It was just that encounter that came as a shock! A learning experience, ya know? And, yes, she had four daughters. And, no, at 39, my aged body was nothing like my 23-year-old body!

Do you know... I have never ‘imagined’ having sex with anyone except the people with whom I am having sex. I thought for ages that that was a sort of male myth... but I found (rather rudely) that men and, yes, women can both be prone to that peculiar artifice. I find it odd; because it has never occurred to me to do the same... just something that I don’t ‘get.’

Ya know... I’m an eye-contact during sex person. Lovers have commented on that, some negatively. Maybe that is another reason that I can’t conjure others whilst loving Jane, Nancy, Stephanie, Laura, Lisa, Jodi, sweet Martha.

As I wrote, my partner and I still use the pink hat term for quarters below deck... and I feel like a real dyno-gyno sometimes with my knowledge of the female anatomy but I don’t always fall back upon the Latin when in the throes of passion!

I love my partner’s 60-year-old body. Or am I more addicted to her 60-year-old wisdom? Both. I love the girl! I’m missing her, now. She keeps my psychosis at bay. Without her here... things change quickly. Never thought of faking an org with her, no, no, no!
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There is no way on God's green earth that I would NOT know if a man I was with faked an orgasm.
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I would still like to know the current term for women’s junk. My partner and I use the same terms that we used in high school. We are so very ‘70’s.
The correct terms would be vagina and labia. Pretty sure that's been the names of them for a very long time
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Yes, I am a woman and I have faked an orgasm.
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The correct terms would be vagina and labia. Pretty sure that's been the names of them for a very long time
Lol. Technically true, but those are not the terms I would use. Lmao.
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My husband faked it once and it was obvious.

How could it not be obvious when no condom is used?Haven't we all been through what happens once we stand up?Haven't we all made that walk to the bathroom with our legs tightly squeezed together,trying to hold it in until we can clean ourselves?
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