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Old 12-02-2017, 03:14 PM   #11
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Ciderguy,
Iím talking about FetLife.com. Itís active bdsm community has over 5 million members. Iím not sure if you need an invite anymore to become a member, but the wealth of information there....well it has a great deal.
It was under some heavy scrutiny in January bec of political issues & thereís been some ďchangesĒ, but it survived. It is NOT a dating site. Iíve heard some call it the bdsm Facebook & ive done a great deal of reading & talking to other like minded members there.
Itís also full of trolls, creeps, scammers & various others like any other site. Depends on what youíre looking for.
Enjoy!
And thank you for the compliment too!
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Ciderguy,
Iím talking about FetLife.com. Itís active bdsm community has over 5 million members. Iím not sure if you need an invite anymore to become a member, but the wealth of information there....well it has a great deal.
It was under some heavy scrutiny in January bec of political issues & thereís been some ďchangesĒ, but it survived. It is NOT a dating site. Iíve heard some call it the bdsm Facebook & ive done a great deal of reading & talking to other like minded members there.
Itís also full of trolls, creeps, scammers & various others like any other site. Depends on what youíre looking for.
Enjoy!
And thank you for the compliment too!
Fetlife is fantastic. A great way to chat with likeminded people. Nearly anything you can think of is found on there.
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Old 12-10-2017, 10:59 PM   #13
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I have been trying in vain to figure out what triggers a fetish and how can one get over and get rid of it? It causes a serious level of distress and I canít figure out why it exist in the first place; add OCD in the mix and itís very distressing
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Why is a fetish something to get rid of? It's human nature, ya know.
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Why is a fetish something to get rid of? It's human nature, ya know.
Itís been digging me since pre adolescence....it waxed and waned but at times it has been unbearable....
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Why is a fetish something to get rid of? It's human nature, ya know.
Then why did you start the thread? This is in direct opposition to your original post.
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Then why did you start the thread? This is in direct opposition to your original post.
This thread is about when a fetish is no longer considered a fetish, but has crossed the line into being a crime or something darker. I never mentioned anything that indicated that said fetishes were unhealthy at all, so long as all parties involved are consenting, and definitely didn't suggest that the person who has them should be shamed. I even mentioned that I wasn't about shaming anyone in the original post.
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