Who had problems in school?

DarknessIsMyFriend · 01-17-2019, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Medusax

I was a fitness nut for years. but I was on the heavy side in Jr. H and HS. THEN, in college I was full blown anorexic for about two years. Don't think of them as stretch marks! Think of them as racing stripes!!!

I'm going to get them tattooed over before too long.

Just can't afford it now.

jekka · 01-18-2019, 11:59 PM

For me primary school was far worse than high school. I was badly bullied from my first day to my last day of primary school. I then went to an okayish high school for about a term before my mental health deterioated and I was eventually hospitalised in our local adolescent psych ward for the first time. For the rest of high school I went to an alternative school and they were good, wasn't really bullied but was still in and out of the adolescent psych ward. But they were good at supporting me and the other students were ok.

whispershadow · 01-19-2019, 07:21 AM

I was bullied in every school I went to.

Medusax · 01-19-2019, 01:37 PM

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Originally Posted by whispershadow

I was bullied in every school I went to.

DarknessIsMyFriend · 01-20-2019, 01:10 PM

Bullies are among the lowest form of scum honestly.

If I ever lost what little bit of sanity I have and decided having children is a good idea, I would make them go to martial arts classes at a young age. I would teach them to not put up with a bully's crap and to never strike first but always strike last. I would also teach them to defend the weaker kids that are struggling with being bullied.

All bullies understand is fear and intimidation. I would teach any future children in my life how to put the bullies in their place. If they get suspended from school for fighting a bully, I would reward them greatly.

Medusax · 01-20-2019, 02:02 PM

My mother never really believed I had problems in the first place, and then she would tell me just "just ignore it for heaven's sake" and, "Don't you ever embarrass me by fighting, if you do you have lost me...." AS IF I have your support in the first place? Really??

MickeyCheeky · 01-23-2019, 11:16 AM

Thank you so much for making this thread, whispershadow

I've had problems in school as well, despite getting good marks. It was always too hard for me and I was constantly anxious, nervous and stressed. I just couldn't handle it. The same thing is happening now that I'm going to university. Why must I be so weak? I'm so sorry for everyone whos was/is struggling in school. Just try to hang on as much as you can. It's not your fault and you're not dumb if you're struggling. Sending many hugs to everyone

raging vortex · 01-26-2019, 10:24 AM

I had a lot (a hell of a lot) of problems in school.

first their was the anxiety, it would hit at any moment and I'd become frozen to the spot (unable to do anything)

secondly all the hospital visits putting me behind

and thirdly my memory just doesn't retain information. I eventually dropped out at a really young age (which is sad, because I missed out on so much)

raging vortex · 01-26-2019, 10:25 AM

my pannic attacks also started in school

so it meant I had to be excluded from events

sometimes that was hard, especially if it was something I really wanted to do.

01-18-2019, 11:59 PM	#12
jekka New Member jekka has no updates. Member Since: Nov 2018 Location: New Zealand Posts: 6	Re: Who had problems in school? For me primary school was far worse than high school. I was badly bullied from my first day to my last day of primary school. I then went to an okayish high school for about a term before my mental health deterioated and I was eventually hospitalised in our local adolescent psych ward for the first time. For the rest of high school I went to an alternative school and they were good, wasn't really bullied but was still in and out of the adolescent psych ward. But they were good at supporting me and the other students were ok.

01-19-2019, 07:21 AM	#13
whispershadow Grand Magnate whispershadow "there's only so much you can do to keep some things alive" Gnomeo and Juliet Member Since: Feb 2018 Location: The Milky Way Posts: 3,216 (SuperPoster!) My Mood: 2,884 hugs given	Re: Who had problems in school? I was bullied in every school I went to. __________________ "After all we'd been through, I needed to believe there was still hope" "All that was left was a memory and the pain of the poor creatures who had suffered. But there are always survivors" Jessie - Animal Farm 1999 "I didn't lose my mind it was Mine to give away Couldn't stay to watch me cry You didn't have the time So I softly slip away" No Regrets Robbie Williams For you, Ebony https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q5gwNSq2OdU

01-20-2019, 01:10 PM	#15
DarknessIsMyFriend Supreme Being DarknessIsMyFriend has no updates. Member Since: Aug 2015 Location: Inside my own head. Posts: 3,006 (SuperPoster!) My Mood: 603 hugs given	Re: Who had problems in school? Bullies are among the lowest form of scum honestly. If I ever lost what little bit of sanity I have and decided having children is a good idea, I would make them go to martial arts classes at a young age. I would teach them to not put up with a bully's crap and to never strike first but always strike last. I would also teach them to defend the weaker kids that are struggling with being bullied. All bullies understand is fear and intimidation. I would teach any future children in my life how to put the bullies in their place. If they get suspended from school for fighting a bully, I would reward them greatly. __________________ The strong do what they will and the weak suffer what they must. This is the way of the world. In the face of a more powerful opponent, I would have no recourse but to suffer. That is why I seek strength. You either die the hero, or you live long enough to become the villain.

01-20-2019, 02:02 PM	#16
Medusax Veteran Member Medusax has no updates. Member Since: Jan 2017 Location: Arkansas Posts: 520 My Mood: 249 hugs given	Re: Who had problems in school? My mother never really believed I had problems in the first place, and then she would tell me just "just ignore it for heaven's sake" and, "Don't you ever embarrass me by fighting, if you do you have lost me...." AS IF I have your support in the first place? Really?? __________________ I go about my own business, and keep my mind on myself and my life. I expect the same courtesy from the rest of the world. Last edited by Medusax; 01-20-2019 at 02:06 PM.. Reason: spelling error

01-23-2019, 11:16 AM	#17
MickeyCheeky Wise Elder MickeyCheeky My echo is the only voice coming back Member Since: Jun 2016 Location: Italy Posts: 8,684 (SuperPoster!) My Mood: 24.2k hugs given	Re: Who had problems in school? Thank you so much for making this thread, whispershadow I've had problems in school as well, despite getting good marks. It was always too hard for me and I was constantly anxious, nervous and stressed. I just couldn't handle it. The same thing is happening now that I'm going to university. Why must I be so weak? I'm so sorry for everyone whos was/is struggling in school. Just try to hang on as much as you can. It's not your fault and you're not dumb if you're struggling. Sending many hugs to everyone

01-26-2019, 10:24 AM	#18
raging vortex Cyclonic!. Community Liaison raging vortex has no updates. Member Since: Aug 2012 Location: the asylum Posts: 25,544 (SuperPoster!) My Mood: 2,094 hugs given	Re: Who had problems in school? I had a lot (a hell of a lot) of problems in school. first their was the anxiety, it would hit at any moment and I'd become frozen to the spot (unable to do anything) secondly all the hospital visits putting me behind and thirdly my memory just doesn't retain information. I eventually dropped out at a really young age (which is sad, because I missed out on so much)

01-26-2019, 10:25 AM	#19
raging vortex Cyclonic!. Community Liaison raging vortex has no updates. Member Since: Aug 2012 Location: the asylum Posts: 25,544 (SuperPoster!) My Mood: 2,094 hugs given	Re: Who had problems in school? my pannic attacks also started in school so it meant I had to be excluded from events sometimes that was hard, especially if it was something I really wanted to do.

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