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Old 01-27-2019, 11:07 AM #1
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I recently accused my husband of sexual abuse of his 3 year old grandson. I thought I was for sure that this was going on. They took the boy and had him checked, he was fine, physically. I still canít get this out of my mind that I was right! Iím a christain or atleast thought I was, I thought I was doing the right thing, I left my husband, My church hates me, people are judging my actions. I feel awful, If I wasnít sure of this, why didnít God show me I was wrong? I was told 6 months or more ago, I was misdiagnosed of being Bipolar to schizophrenia. I canít make this right, Iím so torn and confused..
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I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Just know that it's a physical cause, and it always comes with the worst outcome, often too late to stop before a crisis happens. This wasn't you, it was your illness, and when one is ill, it isn't them--people aren't their illness. I myself feel as though I have an albatross weighting me down because of the chaos I started. This is going to sound harsh, but in an ideal world people shouldn't take mentall illness personal because of this physical cause. ((hugs))
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You did what you thought was right. If your grandson had been in danger, people needed to know. I'm sorry your church is being so judgmental. A lot of people don't understand mental illness. They may think you made it up to hurt your husband.
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