[Watzupwichu]

Originally Posted by Timaabmfo

Not sure if I can go cold turkey. Have been thinking about transitioning to a new reality but even that makes me anxious. My question above still stands.

Timaa.

I'm in my third marriage and I have a long history of one-sided "fantasy" relationships with real people. I must abandon the fantasy that the "right" woman could satisfy my perceived but irrational needs. I'm too old to keep living in a fantasy world and it's too hard suffering the disappointment that comes with the unrealistic desire for uncomplicated love and affection. Good Luck!

[Watzupwichu]

I crave stability and dislike change but at the same time want to run away from it all sometimes and re-invent. I suppose we all have to pick. I don't think there are any rules...whatever works for you. Fantasy can be a good thing...as long as you can separate fact from fiction. Good Luck!