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![]() Yes I know and my daughter’s coming home and I’ve got to hide this from her. She doesn’t like it when I get hurt over him. I thought we could work things out while she was gone but it didn’t happen. It was my clearly stated intention to him but he didn’t accept one of my invitations to go do something. The person who said I needed to take time to think things over was right. That should be allowed in a relationship. I didn’t cut him off. I simply wanted to ease back into it after being apart for 3 years especially now that I’m working full time. I didn’t know how to juggle a relationship and a job and he made fun of me for that. In my previous relationship my now ex husband was very erratic and I don’t have that kind of flexibility or energy anymore. Previous when I was seeing my fiancé I wasn’t working so I could just do whatever. I’m actually a lot healthier now then I was then but ironically he says now I’m very unhealthy. Go figure!
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I am sorry you are hurting but if that’s the same man you’ve been seeing before, pathological liar, then you are better off. As much as it hurts it’s better to stir away. If that’s the same guy, did he get divorced? He was married then. I hope it’s not the same guy. But if it’s a different man, he sounds unhealthy. Why not jusf break up instead of changing his phone number. So dramatic. Hang in there. Good riddance to this loser
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It is the same man and he is divorced which is the reason for the 3 year separation. I love him and am in love with him And was prepared to deal with the challenges . I don’t understand why he didn’t just tell me he didn’t love me anymore instead of telling me he loved me twice, and telling me to Fix it, and getting furious with me for accusing him Of gaslighting and telling me he wasn’t with anyone else. Why would he tell me to fix it and then go and turn his phone off? Why not just say goodbye?
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This is true but according to him I’m the unhealthy and disturbed individual, so we’re a perfect match ![]()
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No, I didn’t see him for 3 years, 2 of those were waiting for the divorce and the 3rd was because he simply didn’t bring his divorce papers to church like I asked him to or mail them. He told me in an angry email that I couldn’t read. That’s what I’m saying, I distanced myself 3 years ago to wait for his divorce but I didn’t terminate it. We could’ve started rebuilding last year but he decided to break up with me before his divorce was finalized.
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