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Old 12-10-2018, 02:10 PM   #31
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If someone is using boundaries as a mask, there is not much you can do about it on your end, but to hope and pray that he or she can overcome his/ her issues someday. (Especially if the people you are writing about happens to be those whom you care about).
Yes and its really easy to point fingers at the other person and say they are unhealthy and disturbed and we are healthy and peaceful. I think I've learned my lesson. Its not nice being on the receiving end of being devalued and discarded. That's why family members should never be therapists, they can't be objective. As a professional code they should refuse to treat a family member. A good therapist will always put the focus back on the person instead of getting them to talk about the other person.
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Old 12-14-2018, 11:33 AM   #32
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sorry this is a very old post it should be closed. not necro'd

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Old 12-14-2018, 11:45 AM   #33
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Wow, way to bump a post from two years ago!
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