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Old 01-23-2019, 06:35 PM   #11
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And the Uni guy called two and a half hours after he was supposed to call, so the call is rescheduled for tomorrow on my lunch break. Kit
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Also, randomly, got a free bottle of Hyaluronic Acid Serum at work today. Yeah! I guess?!?! I've never actually used it before but I like free stuff. And my boss had me looking up definitions of harassment today. That's never a good sign. Kit
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Hey new couch. My kids have been sick, naturally I am now getting the cold. Ugh. Hope you're all doing well.
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So I finally had my dr exam today, it was not fun at all, and the guy DR was blah. Anyway... so the nurse was trying to be friendly and was asking about my surgery. She's like "You are very young for that" and I made it known, "I never want kids, never have, never will, I can't imagine anything I'd hate more than being a mom" She looked shocked and was like "Well what about your partner?" I said, I didn't have one (but it's nice she assumed I'm not ugly enough for one) and said "Well what if I did and he did?" I said "We wouldn't be dating"
She really was confused and kept asking me questions about if my friends have kids and all this, I was being friendly because I try to be polite especially when I'm anxious but I found this so intrusive, like lady, does it really matter to you at all? No, so shut up and stop judging me. I hate how people assume all women want children and marriage. I've never wanted either. I remember as a kid, I would tell my mom "I don't want to be a mom, do I have to?"
Marriage could only happen for me if I REALLY loved him and it was a quick vegas wedding with no family, otherwise it's a hard pass for me. I'm very much set in my ways.

Anyway... so ya, I was annoyed then the old no personality DR made things even worse. Glad that **** is over. Wont be seeing him again
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Neither appeal to me, either. But I'd definitely rather get married than have a kid.
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Today's session went well. He was very empathetic and kind towards me and explained that he did believe me. All is well again.
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I never understood why people worry so much about what happens in someone else's uterus. Like go sweep your own doorstep. I'm sorry that happened to you, DP.
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Like go sweep your own doorstep.
I love it! Ha


It's ok, I mean it was annoying but I held my own and remained polite. I'm used to stuff like this, people have always been baffled with my 100% certainty about it. Even my T, would say things about how it's not always black or white or always/never and I'm like no but in this case it is. LOL He never wants kids either so he wasn't really lecturing or anything but just was kinda trying in general to get me to not be so definite on things.


As a vegetarian, I've grown up with annoying questions from people about my own personal choices, but it's something I'm used to.
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