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Old 12-26-2018, 05:29 PM   #1
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Trig T is pregnant

Don't get me wrong, I'm super happy for her. However, it means that I won't get to see her for at least 6 months.

I'm hurting so bad. I'm also jealous. I just want to die. I don't know how I'm going to make it without her for six months. I can barely make it 2 days without communication.
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Old 12-26-2018, 05:32 PM   #2
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That would be really hard for me, too. Can you maybe see someone else while she's on leave? It wouldn't be the same, of course, but might still be helpful.
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Old 12-26-2018, 05:36 PM   #3
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Wow, six months is a long time. HUGS Kit
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Old 12-26-2018, 05:44 PM   #4
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Sorry you're struggling Scarlet.thats a tough thing ...
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Old 12-26-2018, 05:54 PM   #5
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Congratulations to your therapist but I know this is hard for you.

My guess is that she'll have some options for people to see while she's on leave.
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Old 12-26-2018, 05:55 PM   #6
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Oh man. That would be a really tough pill for me to swallow, too.

It probably won't make you feel any better but here in Canada they're allowed 18 months for maternity leave.

I know it's nowhere near the same, and it's going to feel like starting all over again, but I'm sure she will leave you in good hands.

Do you know when she's due?
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Old 12-26-2018, 05:57 PM   #7
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I'm sorry, Scarlet. Is there any chance she'd be willing to talk on the phone during that time? And when is she due to start her maternity leave?
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Old 12-26-2018, 06:07 PM   #8
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thats so hard! I understand being jealous. i hope you and she can work out some way to communicate.
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Old 12-26-2018, 06:14 PM   #9
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Thats so hard. Hugs. I hope she has away to keep intouch six months is a long time.
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Old 12-26-2018, 06:35 PM   #10
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Nope. No contact for at least 6 months. No phone calls, texts, emails, nothing. She starts maternity leave in April.
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