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Old 09-13-2018, 07:14 AM   #11
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Would she go to a nursing home?
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Old 09-20-2018, 12:21 AM   #12
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I would love to send her to a good quality nursing home. I think I can make her agree as well.

Just as an update, she has forbidden me to make any friends. I can't go out of the house for more than half an hour. When I try to discuss the problem with her, that I get very bored without any friends and people to talk to of my age, she tells me that this is happening to me is because all the people around us ****ing go to a burial ground at night and sit there and do woodoo magic on me. THAT'S THE REASON I FEEL THE NEED TO HAVE FRIENDS.

These things are making me feel like a prisoner here. I can't dare to disagree with her. I can't dare to go out of the house for more than half an hour, because, when I come back, she will start shouting like hell broke loose and the whole colony of people will hear her voice. She says some pretty bad stuff to me that makes me feel bad, sad, unhappy and most of all shameful in front of other people. And none of it is true. It just works like a charm for her.

So yes I am more than willing to send her off to a nursing home. It just sounds good, the old retard living a peaceful life in a quite, positive nursing home with good food and good environment. But I am unable to find any such place of permanent residency till now.

I really appreciate all the answers I get here, and especially yours, TheLonelyChemist, because they make me think that I do have some people to talk to. I am sorry that I don't check psychcentral every day, that's because I am mostly too dazed from work and hell here to have the energy to do anything, and secondly, I don't like seeing no replies, since replies come in slow sometimes. But any help is huge to me as of now. Thanks
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Old 09-20-2018, 03:20 AM   #13
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I want to know your age. I am kind of curious cause I have gone through same childhood.
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Old 09-20-2018, 03:32 AM   #14
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Woman are like that.
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Old 09-20-2018, 04:05 AM   #15
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We should not be sexist.
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Old 09-20-2018, 06:30 AM   #16
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I want to know your age. I am kind of curious cause I have gone through same childhood.
I'm 24 yrs old. How old are you? Does this relate to you somehow? Or provide any more insight.

I've started another thread. I think I may die soon because my health is taking a wrong turn slowly and steadily. AND I can't do anything to improve it, because she does not let me do anything to improve it.
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Old 09-20-2018, 06:33 AM   #17
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Woman are like that.
Women are like that?? Okay, even if I accept that, it does not solve my problem. She doe not ****ing allow me do to anything. She shouts, yells, fights, and finally I have to stop anything that she doe not want me to do. And I'm just doing normal things! Like, once I started putting a half hour every day to clean the house, and I was already foreboding it, one day I had cleaned a wall because it had got a bit dirty.

She fought so much with me that day, and at the end, took up a bowl of dish and smashed it against that very wall. It took me 2-3 hours clean it. She dirtied it in 1 minute. And its not just this. Any positive effort that I try to do goes in vain.
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Old 09-20-2018, 07:53 AM   #18
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I'm 24 yrs old. How old are you? Does this relate to you somehow? Or provide any more insight.

I've started another thread. I think I may die soon because my health is taking a wrong turn slowly and steadily. AND I can't do anything to improve it, because she does not let me do anything to improve it.
I will take a look at the thread. I am seventeen years old MBBS aspirant.
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Old 09-20-2018, 08:39 AM   #19
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I will take a look at the thread. I am seventeen years old MBBS aspirant.
Thanks! Does that mean that you're from India? I think MBBS is an Indian degree?
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Old 09-20-2018, 08:49 AM   #20
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Thanks! Does that mean that you're from India? I think MBBS is an Indian degree?
I believe MBBS is a British degree. Yes I am an Indian.
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