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Old 02-07-2019, 05:33 PM   #11
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Saw the apartment today. I've never lived without a dishwasher, that's a huge change. Laundry another big change but one I was expecting. It's in good shape. But I left one rental badly and I'm not sure I'll be approved, they seem really strict. Fingers crossed.

My rental report is fine but they interview previous landlords and that complex has already bad mouthed me. So they're bound to do it again. Pretty sure I won't be approved. Despite having rebuilt my credit score. I owe them 2 months rent, and remember damaging the fire alarm that went off constantly despite calls to repair it. It interrupted my sleep was making me crazy. They got the deposit money. But I know they got me kicked off one list. I don't know what to do about it. Besides wait it out.
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Old 02-08-2019, 05:35 PM   #12
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Fingers crossed. A dishwasher free life is all I've pretty much known. My grandparents had one. My stepmom had one but other than that, I've not lived with one. And life carries on. Laundromats around me have been modernizing from the days of cashing in bills for quarters. I can load my laundry card with a card or cash and it's easier for me. With three teenage sons I'm in the $23 or more range. Breaking an extra bill for such a difference used to hinder me.
Hopefully their checks on your last apartment don't hold you back. Fingers crossed!
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I would go to where you think you would be happiest and safe.
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Old 02-10-2019, 06:50 PM   #14
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sounds like an awesome break to make. Hard but awesome in the long term -- you have to look after you!
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Well I'll be approved if I get a letter from the former apartment outlining a repayment plan. I have to have the letter by Tuesday. I had to send the first payment to get the letter, making money tight. I was short 200 dollars this month from my vacation last month. I don't get time off, so this added expense is hitting me really hard. So if I'm able to get the letter in time I'm in. The check was supposed to arrive Friday, I bill paid it, but she said she didn't get it. Monday is a holiday. That's why I have until Tuesday. It'll be Tuesday too. Well if God really wants me to move I'll have the letter. I feel like he does.
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Well I'll be approved if I get a letter from the former apartment outlining a repayment plan. I have to have the letter by Tuesday. I had to send the first payment to get the letter, making money tight. I was short 200 dollars this month from my vacation last month. I don't get time off, so this added expense is hitting me really hard. So if I'm able to get the letter in time I'm in. The check was supposed to arrive Friday, I bill paid it, but she said she didn't get it. Monday is a holiday. That's why I have until Tuesday. It'll be Tuesday too. Well if God really wants me to move I'll have the letter. I feel like he does.
Have you done your taxes yet? If you get a refund that might give you some relief. I hope you are able to get the letter on Tuesday. Being on your own will be good for you in the long run....
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Old 02-17-2019, 09:24 AM   #17
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Yes I did my taxes.

I'm worried she won't give me the letter in time. She now says she's going to wait for the check to post. With it being a holiday that won't happen in time. I don't know if I should call and ask for an extension. She's not available until Tuesday, I did call Thursday and say working on it. This is stressing me out need to many documents and not enough time.
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I calmed down. I told her if she wants a money order instead I would bring one tomorrow. But she would than have to hold the check til the 3rd. I said it's very important to me to have the letter tomorrow. I haven't heard back but I think it's reasonable.
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Got the letter I needed! In time! Yeah.
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One major hurdle down! Glad to see that the letter arrived!
And tomorrow is Tuesday, will you be in contact with her?
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