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Unread 02-04-2017, 12:31 PM   #1
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Used to be the problem was medication being the issue. Now it's the grey matter. The 'man bits' aren't working and haven't been for a while now. I might just as well be a eunuch. Either way, it doesn't make me feel good.

This has caused a whole lot of anger and buckets of tears.

Eventually I'd like to find someone to share time with. Won't happen with this going on.
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Unread 02-04-2017, 12:55 PM   #2
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I had the same problem a year ago. It ended up being medication related. I was on a high dosage of Zyprexa . Once I got off the Zyprexa everything straightened itself out. I have heard of other medications doing the same thing. It's worth checking into. Good luck!
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Unread 02-04-2017, 01:38 PM   #3
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This time it's not medication. I've been on this med for awhile without problems. The only med that I really had a problem with was effexor. That one was a nightmare.
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I have issues with this. Luckilly I have a very understanding girlfriend. We both have come to accept that it is just the way things are and found ways to make love and enjoy ourselves in bed even when the man parts aren't cooperating.
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Have you discussed things with a therapist?
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Unread 03-10-2017, 11:15 AM   #6
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My therapist is a woman. I'm not to hep on discussing such issues with women. I mentioned it to the arnp, he just gave me a pill. that's not working. Might just as well go nullo. Not going to explain, if you want to know, Google it.
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You can be helped. My suggestion is to look for a sex therapist. AASECT is a professional association of sex therapists. Go to www.aasect.org and you can search for a sex therapists in your area.
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How about one of those peter pump things, pump it up, pump it up, erection set?
Anyone here ever try one of those units? Some of those boner pills give me a headaches
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How about one of those peter pump things, pump it up, pump it up, erection set?
Anyone here ever try one of those units? Some of those boner pills give me a headaches
Doesn't matter if there is no arousal.
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