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Old 02-22-2019, 04:27 PM   #11
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I started training as a psychiatric nurse myself (long ago) but got out because I realised too much of the psychiatric system is more focussed on control than care & treatment and too often I was coming across nurses who seemed to be more attracted to, or worn down by, that aspect. That doesn't mean all nurses are like that, there are some great nurses out there but I'm referring to the system as a whole which is a coercive system, not an enabling one. Different in medical care, there is much more compassion and empathy, but mental health is full of stigmatised attitudes and devaluing of people.
Hi Carmina,

Thank you for sharing your insights. It is extremely important and vital that you continue to do. Your professional perspective is paramount to changing the cultural and systemic problems in healthcare.

If you don't mind, can you share more about your experiences? Perhaps specific cases that you remember that led you to stop pursuing the career as Psych nurse?

I have to say, I know what you are saying is true; I have personally experienced it.

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Old 02-23-2019, 04:42 AM   #12
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I always had fantastic nurses in the hospital. Extremely helpful. Good listeners.
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Old 02-23-2019, 11:20 PM   #13
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I got caught self harming and they made me
Sit at the desk. They were not nice as Iím sure I cost them
A load of paperwork. And no
I didnít want tk get caught. I was doing it in tbt bathroom and thereís not
Bathroom door just a shower curtain. So the lady
Demanded I come out when she didnít hear my
Peeing and had my show her my
Stomach where I already had marks and she saw what Iíd done.



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I've been IP 3 times, for long periods, all at the same psych hospitals, and all the nurses have been spectacular - nice and really caring. Even when I was on a locked general psych unit, that had people with all kinds of diagnosis and many were involuntary the nurses were nice, if perhaps more rushed to engage in real one on one care.


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I have had some good nurses, too, but I really remember the bad ones--grumpy, impatient, even rude and, as I say, downright mean.
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To quote an old bumper sticker:

MEAN PEOPLE SUCK!

Especially when it's the people that are supposed to be "helping" us to get better!
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They must have had the same training classes that the elementary school lunch aids and the motor vehicle agency workers had.
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Why are psychiatric nurses mean to patients who are on suicide watch? I'd think they should try to be more understanding. Their ugliness certainly didn't encourage me to stop my sui thoughts....
Thank you for speaking out

The ugliness of providers did not encourage me to stop my Sui thoughts

Iím sorry youíve been mistreated

They Should be more understanding. Itís so sad how they fail us

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I had a psych nurse that worked for my Pdoc and every time I would call in depressed and needing a med change she would put me inpatient... usually with the cops showing up at my house! She sent me in one time and I think she checked every box... full physical restraints, in a nasty, dark ďwatchĒ room, strapped to a metal exam table with a thin Matt on it, door locked... youíd think I was Hannibal or something, at least that was how I felt. The psych nurse on watch was very nice though... once I got out of watch onto the psych ward though they were nasty to me unless they wanted me to counsel another patient. They wrote me up for everything.
I donít get it either.
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Yes, I've noticed that some nurses are mean to people who are brought in for attempted suicides. (I became suicidal while on the ward.) I had a fellow patient even ask me why I thought the nurses were being mean to her, and that's what I told her. I just don't get it.

It's like we intentionally meant to somehow make it hard for the nurses. In some cases they'd probably be suicidal, too, if they were going what we were going through.
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