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Unread 03-24-2017, 12:16 AM   #21
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It really is the most devastating experience a mom or dad? have to live with.
Recently my 35 year old had broken a 30 year silence and called me a few times. She's in bad shape with depression, eating disorder, anxiety etc. She suddenly stopped calling. I am totally devastated........ It's like a carrot is dangling in front of me, then yanked away. I'm more depressed than before I heard from her! Crying a lot. Then I sometimes just stay there and try to figure out what's going on. I'm very frustrated. I have a lot of anger from other issues that not in my control. I hate being misunderstood by a new mental health worker who never even met me until last week. I'm going to leave a message on her phone telling her she doesn't even have updated information, and how I hated being browbeaten by her. She treated me like a kid! I stay in my bed and write, pray and watch a bit of tv. I have no hope. I thought we were beginning a long road to some sort of relationship...guess not. My younger daughter won't even talk to me on Facebook. She just disappeared, she unfriended me and I have no idea why.
You guys wouldn't believe what I've been going through with my GP. Doc. It's sickening. I can't get out of their government clinic so I'm waiting for my medical files and just going out there looking for a doc that believes what I say, respects me and doesn't abuse me like my ex dr, if you can call her that.

I'm friggin 61 years old, alone, afraid of people, and broken-hearted cause of my kids who I am going to write to and say, don't dangle a carrot. It hurts too much. I even hate myself lately.
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Default Re: Parental Alienation Syndrome. (P.A.S.)

I tried to edit my last post but nothing happened. I wanted to sayI hope I don't hear from my daughter again, because I'm too hurt and depressed. I have been hoping for awhile that I don't live a long life. I can't take anymore stress and bad stuff happening. I can't even tell you anything good that's happened to me since my mom died and my sister died. I'm very poor now, can't afford to buy an occasional pizza. Seriously. I have t had even a few days away from the city for 20 years. No money. I have no hair because of psoriasis and meds crumbled my teeth and had to pull all of them. Dentures are floaters! I can't even wear dentures! That's not all but you get the point. I'm very unhappy and have nothing to look forward to.
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I just joined this forum this AM after reading an article on pro.psychcentral.com which did not mention PAS, however right on target for same. Title: "When Your Kids Turn Against You In Favor of the Narcissistic Parent"
I 'get' this issue, sons now in 20s, been divorced nearly a decade. I certainly appreciate the need to 'break the silence' over this insane kind of insidious abuse.
Just now learning to navigate this forum.
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