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Unread 04-17-2017, 02:30 AM   #1
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I lost my father 1 week ago to this day, it feels like he is just on vacation. The viewing is on Tuesday and the funeral on Wednesday. We I see him again, everything will come back and reality will set in and I can't handle the reality, I love my dad.
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Unread 04-17-2017, 02:34 AM   #2
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I've been thinking of you since your email, I just now got a chance to pull my laptop out and post. Sending you many hugs hun, just know you are not alone in your grief, it is so hard to lose someone that is in your everyday life.
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I am very sorry for your loss.
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The viewing...the funeral... [When] I see him again...
You will not, you will only see an empty host where he used to be. Whatever your personal beliefs in relation to life-after-death might be, think on those kinds of things now and talk about them with others at the viewing and funeral.
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oh no ariesmars, I am soooo sorry for your loss.
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I'm starting to dread the next few days. :crying:
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I'm starting to dread the next few days. :crying:
Thinking of you and wrapping you in hugs. Funerals can be so hard and emotionally draining.
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