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Old 10-12-2018, 08:37 AM   #1
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I filed for divorce years ago but didnít finalize it for certain reasons. I regret
not going all the way. I tried to save a 30 yr marriage after a few years of separation. I got better but she didnít. It pains me every day to think that I
may have to leave. But now I have so much invested in this thing.
Financial, emotional, etc..... Some people will NEVER change. And I stress never because Iím living proof that some do. I suffer from depression but try and hide it. Iím not happy. People say just leave. Itís not that simple. I have no physical or emotional contact with my wife. Iím just going to say this now. Where are all the supposedly lonely people out there ? I canít find them. I have no friends.
No one to talk to. If thereís anyone out there who would like to talk please private message me. I really need to talk to someone who knows the meaning of feelings and loneliness.
Today is the first day of the rest of my life.

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Old 10-12-2018, 12:31 PM   #2
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I have never been married so I can't say that I know exactly what you are going through but..
I was in a toxic relationship with my ex for over five years.

We were definitely drifting away emotionally and physically, but it was so hard to separate because of the family/friend ties we had and how much time, energy and efforts we had put and invested. I felt like I'd be alone forever after that, especially because most of our friends were his first and I don't have a big family.

It took a lot of guts to break things off (I was so afraid I was making the wrong decision), and things were lonely and difficult at first for sure. Some of our mutual friends stuck by me regardless, some took sides and dislike me to this day because we aren't together even though it has nothing to do with them. But it is what it is.

& It's been over a year without him.
It's true when people say that if you can just believe in yourself, good things and people come to you (law of attraction). I made new connections on my own, I'm working out regularly, eating better, developed new hobbies... Most importantly, I am happier now than I've ever been in a long while.

Not sure if this is helpful at all.
I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to.
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