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Old 11-15-2007, 01:13 AM   #1
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Just wanting to VENT or RANT........... but comments are Welcomed.

I am not for sure that I wish to share any more of myself and my feelings when I am having a relationship crisis and need to post in the Relationship Forum for too many people are harsh and jump on me when I express my true feelings concerning men (that which a very abandoned forgotten and discarded teenager holds the feelings to - not to mention all the sexual abuse that happened, to me by men, from age two to age twelve) - the teenager is sixteen (lost before she could find herself).

.... She needs to be heard so that her feelings and wounds can be validated (for no one ever listened - no one ever stopped the pain) and yet others do not like to hear the anger that so many men over her life time has created - guess she remains quite for another twenty years. Sharing on PC with DID


Me / Her - Her / Me -
I am getting tired of how people react to the expressed anger and pain of a sexually & mentally wounds soul - that which a young child and teenager never asked for in the first place....... created by MEN.

She almost HATES them - While I have tried my best to LoVe in spite of the Past.
How can one win out over such deviated sickness that was forced upon another?

Why do people want to hate ME for the PAIN that needs to be healed from - by my way of healing, sharing & venting?
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Old 11-15-2007, 02:04 AM   #2
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I have tried to explain this so many times but I'm not reaching you. It's never a problem when you talk about your anger and feelings toward the men who hurt you. You SHOULD and I will ALWAYS be supportive when you want to vent about specifics. The problem is only, ONLY when you express your feelings as being representative of how ALL women must feel about MOST or ALL men.

Your feelings are welcome and I will always support you, as long as you can keep it to YOUR feelings about YOUR experiences.

I promise to be supportive in those situations and I'm very, very sorry you've felt hurt by those (including me) who haven't been able to get past your style of posting to see the underlying message that you're trying to express.
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Old 11-15-2007, 02:15 AM   #3
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The problem is only, ONLY when you express your feelings as being representative of how ALL women must feel about MOST or ALL men.

I promise to be supportive in those situations and I'm very, very sorry you've felt hurt by those (including me) who haven't been able to get past your style of posting to see the underlying message that you're trying to express.

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Thanks for the promised support - Sharing on PC with DID

* * * * * * * * *

I do not see my way of posting as ME saying that "ALL WOMEN" feel this way - but rather that I am saying that "I feel this way about ALL MEN" (i even state such in my posting - this is about me i say) ....... well about me and my 16 year old sexually mentally and physically abused alter.... she holds my deepest inner feelings toward MEN and all they have done to us.

I could and have NEVER spoken for how "ALL WOMEN" feel - NEVER!! - how could I?
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Old 11-19-2007, 12:15 AM   #4
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Just wanted to share..........

I - ME (Carolyn) am in control and hubby and I are having a very pleasant time together this weekend and I am in LoVe with HIM - and the SEX has been WOW....... I am smiling - Sharing on PC with DID

.... she (Carol) is listening / watching and trying to understand from my side of the fence and to learn from it.
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Old 11-19-2007, 12:07 PM   #5
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maybe you need to post in here for the time being, we understand , been there done that
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Old 11-19-2007, 05:24 PM   #7
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I think it is hard for others to respond positively to Carol like it is hard for you; we are all mirrors and sponges and that much hate and pain caused by "us" is difficult to sit with (which is why Carol is expressing it). Just because she is 16 and we older doesn't mean we can deal with it any better or with more finesse than she can.

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Old 11-20-2007, 10:37 PM   #8
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Sharing on PC with DID So you are to two >>> Polar opposites.........And married ,,, and In LOve ..... Hope that one shines through the Most often... Sharing on PC with DID
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I think it is hard for others to respond positively to Carol like it is hard for you;
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I understand what you are saying and I too find it hard to deal with Carol some times...... but I have never had HATE her for she has held so many years of emotional pain for ME so I could live - breathe another day.

Personally she just wants her "FEELINGS to be VALIDATED" from her side of the fence....... from the sick abuse she (and I) went thru.....
yet some people are not allowing this one wish before she dies. Sharing on PC with DID
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maybe you need to post in here for the time being, we understand...
Angie

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I agree........ as others that do not have to live with DID or Sexual Abuse - do not always UNDERSTAND, therefore, they often try to change our ways instead of validating our wounded feelings / bodies.

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