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it sucks being me...

I’m never pretty enough...never good enough
The abusers are “Strong” and “Wonderful” People
They are “successful people”
Their brainwashing flattens me and makes me bleed
They target me because I’m “weak” I suppose
I can never win against the abusers who want to harm me

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I’m doomed

To be A Big Fat Failure

I’m hopeless, please ignore me

Thanks everyone for trying to support me, you’re all very kind.

Not like me, a mistake

(Not about anyone on pc)
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Fuzzy, you are very kind.

You know your abusers brainwashed you - you keep saying it. So - I suggest telling yourself the exact opposite of what your abusers said. Say it aloud. Write it down. Do it everytime you think of what your abusers said. That will help "un-brainwash" you.

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Sorry to hear you are feeling this way Fuzzybear. Isn’t great when you can choose to hang out with someone or not. Sometimes you can’t choose who to hang out with or who is in your class, etc. In a perfect world a person should be able to avoid “toxic people.”
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Default Re: Why can I Never Be Good Enough I’m a Big Fat Failure

Maybe we need to stop trying.

Accept ourselves.
Let others decide if they want to treat us with respect.
We can decide who we want to have in our lives

This works for me
When I remove abusers
and have dealt with those I can't ignore
I can return to peace
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