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Old 01-11-2019, 12:00 PM   #1
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Itís hard not to notice on forums the occasional mean reply. PC is very good in that respect that mean replies are not frequent. As someone said in another thread, people who send mean replies have all sorts of problems which they take out on others. And it doesnít only effect the recipient of the judgmental and mean post, it brings the whole forum down. Someone else posted about having butterflies after posting something. When we speak of our innermost feelings, we deserve respect and care. Too many of us have been bullied and abused irl. (In ďrealĒ life) I send kudos and appreciation to all the kind and supportive posters here, who genuinely try to be supportive. That also includes me.

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Old 01-11-2019, 12:04 PM   #2
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I agree sometimes its hard and scary to write what we feel or what's going on with fear of being judged. I personaly havent seen any negative posts lately but i have seen them in the past.
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I agree sometimes its hard and scary to write what we feel or what's going on with fear of being judged. I personaly havent seen any negative posts lately but i have seen them in the past.
I agree. I too havenít seen any negative posts lately, but have seen some in the past. If together we make this place more supportive ... AS IS, thatís a good thing. And everyone deserves support and ďaffirmationsĒ not just some people. And nobody deserves blame and negativity. Itís too easy to blame ourselves for mental illness. Who needs some smart azz adding their ignorant and toxic opinions (nobody here)
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We are all worthy and deserve to be heard...
Here we have a place where we can be honest about how we feel...
Support and kindness go a long way...

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It is scary to expose one's soul. If I do it at home I get accused of being negative and am shut down. It's become almost impossible to express myself.
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It is scary to expose one's soul. If I do it at home I get accused of being negative and am shut down. It's become almost impossible to express myself.
If I do it at home my partner doesnít understand and wants to fix me. I have had to ask for physical comfort when I am really low and crying. I donít want suggestions of what to do, I have professionals for that. So, I usually have some degree of a mask on at home, and at my part time job. It feels lonely in a weird way.
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Thank you for making this thread, Fuzzybear! I agree with you, PC is a great, kind, supportive place and I hope it will stay that way. People here are always so kind and supportive, and that's wonderful. Thank you everyone, you're the ones that make PC such a wonderful place. Sending many hugs to everyone
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I try and remember that everyone here needs support and help and that the majority of us have mental health issues or trauma issues or abuse issues. We are all here for a reason. If I am going to sound harsh because of how blunt I am I try and apologize in advance so the other person knows I am not trying to be mean. Sometimes the written word doesnt reflect the intent, just like with texting. I do not think I have ever blocked anyone on a forum with the exception of someone who was sexually harassing me. I believe most people deserve chances. Even here someone said something nasty to me and I responded in a clipped tone. They sent me a pm and I responded with what my intentions are etc. Things are fine now as far as I can see.`
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