|03-20-2017, 10:16 AM||#1|
Wisest Elder Ever
Fuzzybear has no updates.
Member Since: Nov 2002
Posts: 63,918 (SuperPoster!)
I really don't know if this bear life is "worth it"
I've been told by so many it isn't (directly or indirectly)
I feel that I hurt people
(Just by existing...)
But mostly I'm tired of ... too much pain to put into words
(I can't reach out to family, friends, or professionals..)
(It's not time for my 5 minute slot yet with the doctors
That's all they give me, and I deserve even less )
I'm sorry about this post, I really "shouldn't" be posting stuff like this..
|03-20-2017, 10:39 AM||#2|
Member Since: Feb 2009
Posts: 8,339 (SuperPoster!)
"Shouldn't" be posting things like this?
Plenty of us accept your post just as it is with no reference to "should" or "shouldn't."
Five minutes with a doctor...
((((((( Fuzzybear! )))))))
My dog mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.
|03-20-2017, 10:46 AM||#3|
DechanDawa has no updates.
Member Since: Nov 2015
Location: Mountains Rivers Sky
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You need to help yourself. It is the only way. You need to help yourself. Of course you are worth it and have value. Put all those negative thoughts in a box and shove it in the back of the closet. Please make yourself a cup of coffee or tea and breathe out negative thoughts and breath in love. You can do it, fuzzy.
|03-20-2017, 11:13 AM||#4|
scaredandconfused taking things one day at a time
Member Since: Jan 2013
It saddens me to hear that you have had such bad experiences with mental health professionals. I would have never thought the U.K health care system was lacking except for posts on psychcentral. It makes me mad! You deserve good treatment, and a happy life.
|03-20-2017, 11:48 AM||#5|
crimsoncat is drowning
Member Since: Jan 2017
Location: . the land of make believe
Posts: 218 (SuperPoster!)
hugs and bugs x
sometimes crimson acts like a crazy cat,
She has to remind herself, she is good and kind ...
For thats a fact.😿 .
|03-20-2017, 12:18 PM||#6|
Member Since: Apr 2013
There are people that are experts on space sciences. There are people that are experts on Middle Ages. But nobody is an expert on people's worth, or on you. You are the only expert on yourself, please remember that. And I am not saying that other people's points of view cannot contribute to your self-awareness. I am not saying that you (or anybody here) know everything about yourself (Or one self). But in that regard, the only person that can really tell if you are worthy the effort is you. And you are the one making most of the effort for your improvement. And you are the one who suffer the most if you do not improve. All this that happens to you is yours, not theirs. What they say or think it does not matter much at the end of the day.
Hope is definitely not the same thing as optimism. It is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out. Vaclav Havel