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Old 10-29-2018, 10:46 PM #31
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Another thing I remember is, I had my own room and I had a blackboard where I could write things down. One day as a teenager when I was very upset I tried to write my feelings down on the board. My mother came in and read over them, turned to me, and said (with tremendous indifference): "You goin' crazy or something?"
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What people say to me is never relevant, I can easily let opinions roll off my back. It's what I tell myself that can be both horrible and terrifying.

I suppose you can only take offense if what a person says is true. For example if someone says to me I'm ugly, fat or stupid. Well I know I'm none of those things however if I was to tell myself those things then I'd have issues.

Maybe when I was much younger opinions of others would bother me. After the age of 30 I just didn't care anymore. 😊😊😁
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That it's all in my head.
'i'm a good father, its all in your head'-Dad

'I never did that, your imagining things'-Mom

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"When we learned that you were mentally ill, we grieved as if you had died."

- Lefty's ma (1938-2006) circa 1998
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A therapist once told me that he could not understand how I was still alive after all that I'd lived through. He said that I'd survived without becoming an alcoholic, drug addict or a sex addict so there was nothing for him to treat.
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"When we learned that you were mentally ill, we grieved as if you had died."

- Lefty's ma (1938-2006) circa 1998
I got so angry at you parents when I read your post, Lefty.
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I was abused by my father because he thought I was gay as a child. When I wasn't. Long story...

At my wedding he said to my wife "I'm just glad he's not gay!"
After everything he had done to me, how could he say that on my wedding day?
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you have friends?!

She was genuinely shocked.
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"You're a mental case!"
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