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Old 12-05-2017, 05:45 AM   #1
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Default I hate being called fat

in reality, it's probably true... my lack of exercise and my overeating isn't helping

still, when people turn to me and say you're fat, or large, or even overweight, I hate it.

it's like.. so what if I am?. have you a right to tell me that?

it's like me going up to someone in the park and telling them their dog is over fed

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Default Re: I hate being called fat

This can change if you find a way to shut them up. For example:
- You can say, "I'm fat and happy. I'm not changing that for you."
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- "So? What are you going to do about it?"
or
- You can reply by saying "I would rather be fat than ugly like you."

If we let people abuse us, they will continue to do so. Sometimes we need to respond harshly to stop the abuse.
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Old 12-14-2017, 07:27 AM   #3
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This can change if you find a way to shut them up. For example:
- You can say, "I'm fat and happy. I'm not changing that for you."
or
- "So? What are you going to do about it?"
or
- You can reply by saying "I would rather be fat than ugly like you."

If we let people abuse us, they will continue to do so. Sometimes we need to respond harshly to stop the abuse.


I love that last one!

lol!
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