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Unread 03-20-2017, 11:28 AM   #11
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Unread 03-20-2017, 01:15 PM   #12
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Years ago at my last job, before I knew I was bipolar or what hypo or mania was, I was very hypo and developed a friendship with a co-worker who was a few years younger than me. I was very UP and exciteable when we went out and admit a little on the strange side. Out of nowhere she stopped talking to me and it hurt badly and made me feel I was too weird to ever have friends. Right before she stopped talking to me she had sex with her teenage neighbor one night while I was hanging out at her house and the very next night she slept with the teenagers father while I was there! After thinking about it all, I bet she stopped hanging out with me because of her own embarrassment, rather than anything I did. My point is, it might be them, not you. (((Hugs)))
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ELSA you said " ... she had sex with her teenage neighbor one night while I was hanging out at her house and the very next night she slept with the teenagers father while I was there!.." .. uh ... were did you say she lived ... lol .... had too ... just too good to pass up ...
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the message says "seen" they did not miss it and i did try contacting them again just yesterday. i think they are mad at me but i dont know why
From my personal experience, I wouldn't ask myself if they are or aren't "mad" at me. Instead, I would ask myself, "were they even good friends in the first place?"

I had "friends" in high school and in college, but these "friends" never bothered to talk to me unless I initiated a conversation with them. And even then, after a few years, they just wouldn't bother responding.

I never "did" anything wrong. They just weren't good friends in the first place. It was only after they stopped responding that I looked back on things and said, "you know what? they never invited me to anything, except going to the local pizza shop. they never got me gifts for my birthday, even though i would always give them stuff. they never hung out with me after school unless i asked. they never texted me on their own unless i texted them."

So maybe it's not that you "did" something wrong, but maybe it's a case where they weren't good friends in the first place. I'm not saying that I'm right and you're wrong, but it's just some food for thought.

I'm sorry you're going through this, though. It's tough.
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ELSA you said " ... she had sex with her teenage neighbor one night while I was hanging out at her house and the very next night she slept with the teenagers father while I was there!.." .. uh ... were did you say she lived ... lol .... had too ... just too good to pass up ...
She made their night for sure. She ended up dating the older man long term and I always wondered if he knew about the fling with his son. It's like the plot of an 80's flick and all true. The odd part is how for so long I thought that relationship ended because I was acting strange. When I look back now, I see a much different reality.
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