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Old 12-12-2018, 11:07 AM   #21
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Intelligence has nothing to do with relationships. Similar to how a disability has nothing to do with driving as long as you're able to drive and do it skillfully. I've been on both extremes of intelligence, I used to be very smart but now I am only somewhat smart academically and much dumb when it comes to socializing. It's related with my dysthymia.


Thatís what I was saying, a man doesnít need a woman as intelligent as himself to be happy. In my own personal experience I am complex and a relationship with a simple person will fail. Thereís no moral superiority in simplicity and thereís no inherent pathology in complexity. Perhaps men and women are different.
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Thatís what I was saying, a man doesnít need a woman as intelligent as himself to be happy. In my own personal experience I am complex and a relationship with a simple person will fail. Thereís no moral superiority in simplicity and thereís no inherent pathology in complexity. Perhaps men and women are different.
We all are different.
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Of course. I am the other person in the other relationship.
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I'd visit a marriage counselor if you can afford it, any day and any time.
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I'd visit a marriage counselor if you can afford it, any day and any time.


Weíre engaged but estranged and thatís what Iíve told him but Iíve gotten no response. My brothers mother in law offered to give us a free couples counseling class when she visits for Christmas.
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