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Old 12-11-2018, 10:55 AM   #11
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This sounds like me ... a sign that says “kick fuzzy bear”

I have learnt however that everyone who tries to kick me is an a-hole with poor taste....
Well instead of being kicked I wont do that but here is a big hug for you.I hope it helpsHUG
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Old 12-17-2018, 12:10 PM   #15
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I I am very sensitive and insecure .and with that people tend to walk all over me I use to hold back and not say a word but I cannot do that anymore sometimes because it hurts to much. I mean why is it that someone can say something to me and I cant say anything back but when I try to I just explain why I feel this way. Why do people tend to pick on others who are very sensitive and insecure is beyond me. Are they just being rude or dont they understand? I tried one time to explain to someone how something they said upset me, I get all tongue tied and all nervous she did say she was sorry yet she also said I worry to much too. That I cannot help. I am sure that being sensitive comes from the way I was brought up. My mom and dad verbually abused me, so much so that my mom would always tell me that I would never have any friends. She even made fun of the way I looked. I really didnt have to many friends when I was younger still that way now to kind of. I cannot help it if I am sensitive and insecure,. I would never be mean to anyone because I know how it feels .It is just that explaining to someone that you are sensitive and insecure is a very hard thing to do, they tend to look at you like you are crazy. I am not crazy .I just get tried of rude remarks from people sometimes.
I completely understand how you feel! I am the same way. people always the times tell me that I am crazy because I had compassion to those who had been hurt.
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I'm so sorry you're struggling, xmascarol Yes, people tend to bully those who are more sensitive or insecure about themselves. It's really not fair That's why I believe it's important to take care of our own self-esteem. There are many books on the subject? Have you tried to read some? I'm so sorry you have to deal with this
Self esteem books? I will have to try that out.
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Old 12-17-2018, 12:16 PM   #17
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I do not intentionally bully people. I never say anything to someone I would not want said to me. I do treat others as I want to be treated. However, I have learned that someone might find something I said insulting when I didn't think it was at all. That happened with my roommate in college. She kept being offended, and I didn't understand why.

I'm only saying this because these people you think are bullies might be like me. They genuinely do not understand why you are upset. I would really prefer people to tell me if I've said something that offends them. That way, I will know not to say it again. Otherwise, I will probably keep saying it and hurting them more. So if it's someone you see often, like a friend, I think it's a good idea to mention it. Maybe not at the moment if that's too hard. But later when you are calmer.
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