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Old 06-18-2016, 09:33 PM #11
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I see love as pointless, useless, and nonexistent.
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I'm in a relationship with someone with aspd and he takes care of me and puts his needs before his own. He explained his feelings towards me as I am a prized possession. He owns me. I'm ok with this and I love him and worship him as my god
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That other site gave a lot of feedback. I don't know the answer, myself.

That said, it sounds like you two definitely bonded, that's great! Meeting each other's needs is so important and he's putting your needs before his, too! Congratulations!
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I'm one and to say that I am able to love is a strong wronged answer but sure I am able to get somehow obsessed with the people that I have interest to "own". This is somehow sometimes mimicking a sort of superficial love. Beside since I am a trained to live in society and mimic emotions I am very good at adressing my sexual lust into something that most people would see it as love. The problem is when people like me get bored and loses interest in the "aimed person"
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Ha Ha I was going to reply but Void of Oblivion said it all for me, absolutely spot on. The thing I care most about is my cat, but if I had to move house or couldn't keep him for some reason I would have no hesitation in blowing his head off and I know from experience that I would have no remorse or guilt. As for humans I don't think I could ever care more for a human than my cat. So my answer is if you have the full suite of ASPD symptoms you would be incapable of love. I also never feel lonely so It is something I simply don't understand.
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Conditional love.
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I think love is too strong of a word. Care? Yes. Love? Personally i have not experienced that.
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Care isn’t the same as love? Then I’m not sure either.
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I only care about the people and animals and plants I love. I’m not all that good at it but I try.
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Maybe trying to be social with other anti-socials is “barking up the wrong tree”.🤣
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