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Old 05-09-2018, 10:37 AM   #1
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Hi everyone, i am new here and one reason for being here is my alcoholic mother. She has been an alcoholic for 16 years, gave up for 6 and then 3 years ago she relapsed and this time its worse. The denial she is in is much worse than before and her relapse has brought up hard childhood memories and realisations for me and my siblings. My main problem is with guilt because even though my mum is extremely nasty to us all, selfish and cruel, I cannot seem to cut contact and feel guilty that I can't help her. just looking for advice and people in a similar situation, thanks.
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I would start by going to Al-anon and ACOA meetings if possible. That would be some help.

Realize that the only person that could change your mother is herself. It's not your fault that she is the way she is.
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