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Old 02-17-2019, 11:01 AM
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I havenít experienced what you describe but hereís some thoughts: when he asks for space give him the space he wants and needs. Let him come to you, donít force him to talk or communicate and donít follow him. Try to manage your anxiety yourself or with a therapist. The last thing you want to do is crowd someone when they want space. You need to respect their request and boundaries.
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