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Old 02-16-2019, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post
I think some of it has to do with how the other person in the relationship treats you. Some people exacerbate attachment issues for whatever reason.
Yep, I have a long history of being in relationships with abusive women.

I know the reason now why I did this and what exactly I was trying to resolve from a very bad childhood experience.

What is the most awful thing about it is that now, I wonder if any relationship I have ever had has ever not been just a need to resolve that childhood experience. I am glad I have the knowledge, but I'm still trying to balance the scales as to the worthiness of that knowledge because it has created a lot of pain. Pain is a formidable teacher, but I'm still trying to figure that out.
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