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Old 12-13-2018, 08:03 PM  
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Default Re: I am really struggling

Originally Posted by eskielover View Post
I hate to say this but it sounds like you are much better off without him. The more things you do on your own the more independent you will grow.

I was 54 when I finally left my H. I had never lived alone & I bought my farm 2100 miles away from him in a town & state where I knew no one. After 11 years I had contact again for a court hearing against him. We actually had a civil closure. It was interesting because one of his comments was that he thought within 2 years I would come back & I never did. I lived my totally independent life alone with my farm & my dogs & real friends for the first time in my life.

There is a good life one can have after a bad relationship.
I'm tired of being on my own and independent. Now I have one failed marriage and one failed engagement. I've been on my own since I was 18. I definitely don't think I'm better off with him.
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