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Old 07-21-2016, 09:00 AM
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Default Re: Welcome to the Attachment Disorders forum

i agree, Skeez, that some children seem to be born with problems, and nothing in the pregnancy to explain it. i was told i had 'colic' the first 3 months, and cried inconsolably. my mother would put alcohol with sugar water (hot toddy) in my bottle. she had already left my one yr old brother with her own mother, so i don't think she wanted kids very much...

for what ever the reason, i learned not to attach to people, and to let go, quick and in a hurry. it as affected all my relationships all my life. it's 'normal', for me. and to tell the truth, i'm a little (more than a little ) bit glad that i don't get torn up every time someone leaves or dies (or doesn't like me).

so, i have no motivation to change, and i am interested to see if people who are motivated find some success at it,,,

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