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Unread 02-12-2014, 05:26 AM   #1
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'Say something I'm
Giving up on you... And I'm
Sorry that I couldn't get you...
Anywhere I would have followed you,
But say something coz I'm giving up on you..'
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Unread 02-12-2014, 06:21 AM   #2
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I was writing this to my ex when he broke up to me, then every time I would write to him he would just ignore it.. if you want to chat you can pm me anytime!

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Hi niceguy, that song certainly strikes a chord with me!!
Think I've an idea of where you're coming from, but do you want to talk a bit more about your situation? Would like to try to help if I can.
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Hi Niceguy,

I can't listen to this song anymore without crying...my heart is broken.

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'Say something I'm
Giving up on you... And I'm
Sorry that I couldn't get you...
Anywhere I would have followed you,
But say something coz I'm giving up on you..'
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I am sorry 'Zen' tell me your story. Who has broken your heart and is there still hope?
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Hi niceguy,

No hope, I'm afraid. I met someone on an online dating site. We talked everyday sometimes 7 hours a day for over a month. I realize that sounds crazy. I fell in love with him, but I think I pushed him away by expressing my concern over the geographic distance between us (2 hours). I wish I would have never mentioned it being an issue, because now that he is gone, I know I would go to the end of the earth to be with him. I went though a very painful divorce a few years ago and I never thought I would fall in love again, but I did and I thought he was the one. Now that it's over, I am incredibly heart broken. I have prayed that he will change his mind, call me and tell me he misses me and wants to be with me, but that hasn't happened.

I have told him how I feel since we broke up and he hasn't changed his mind unfortunately. I have forced myself to go back to the online dating site just so I could try to force him out of my system, however, he is all I can think about and no one holds a candle to him and the connection I thought we both had is something I had never experienced before. I wish I could make the pain go away...

What is your story? ((Hugs)) & thank you so much for allowing me to vent.
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Great song.
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Similar story here. It sucks.


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I'm sorry to all who have been so incredibly hurt. I am in the same situation. I've been dumped without an explanation and I loved him with all my heart. It is hard to go on without him in my life. Before we were lovers, we were great friends...now we are nothing...I feel like he took my love and broke my heart. No repair is in sight.
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To all my broken hearted friends. May we all find our way to the other side. May we all find our hearts held and nurtured for a change, for all the beauty they posess. I will never love 'the one' any less. However, I try the mantra "it's ok, you love them, you miss them" feel it- and then let it go- with a deep exhaling breath- "i will move on" It has helped. There are too many who Enter our lives and disappear without warning. Yet, when all is said and done, no matter the pain. It made me stronger and ensures my eyes will be open next time
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