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Unread 10-18-2013, 01:45 PM   #1
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Trig Too nice......

I constantly give ...wipes Irl the benefit of the doubt.

sick of being used and wrung out like an old rag.

Bears are NOT to be used.

We have teeth for a reason

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I can very much relate to this... if anything I think it's hardened me up as the years go by which is a shame; mainly because I'm now a lot more cautious with giving a helping hand (irl) to others until I at least know them a little better.
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Sometimes people are real butt heads irl or on here. People will always be people. Remember the butt heads maybe fighting harder battles than we are, at least that's what I try to tell myself.
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I hate being an idiot but what is irl? But sounds like might be a place that is not safe for nice bears like Fuzzybear.
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irl = in real life
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Now that I know what irl means, I guess I have to change my advice Fuzzybear. We all have to live in real life. I don't find the real life to be a great place somedays, but it's what we are left with. You really have to be care full who you let people into you real life.

I think those ***wipes have mental illness too. They just aren't facing.

Be careful out there Fuzzybear. Remember that there are a lot of us that aren't ***wipes and wouldn't a bear like you.
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Fuzzy,
I am sorry! I hope you feel better soon. I think our world is changing in some way for the worst; perhaps some changes are good, but others definitely suck. One of these changes is that we are missing the golden rule "Whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them", or what simply could be name as "reciprocity".
You and others here including me base our life on reciprocity, and to expect the best from the others; we will not betray others, we have been educated to live in that way. But the world has changed and today lack of reciprocity and betrayal seem to be rules taking the lead. I do not think that this is only a personal situation but a general problem in the world today. I do not know what to do! I wish you the best
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I constantly give ...wipes Irl the benefit of the doubt.

sick of being used and wrung out like an old rag.

Bears are NOT to be used.

We have teeth for a reason

Love to all the people who care about others. Thanks for being here
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I relate to you so much and after the day I have had I am telling myself that I am going toughen myself up and not be a doormat any longer, I let people walk all over me, I am way too weak.

Today is my birthday and does any one care? NO, I am deeply hurt, sorry if I have taken over your thread Fuzzy, I just relate to you a lot
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